2010-02-11

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2010-02-11 01:09 pm

Sick day = blogging day + soup.

Jim C. Hines has signal-boosted the Library of the Living Dead queer zombie antho thing. Like him, I’ve been looking for more info (or even acknowledgment) from Library of the Living Dead about the whole thing. More news as I stumble across it, I suppose.

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Researchers are studying the origins of certain well-known fairy tales, and discovering that they may be much older than previously believed. This isn’t a new idea in itself — hello, morphology — but the particulars can be staggering.

(This is, incidentally, why I probably shouldn’t date a folklorist. I don’t know how I’d cope if, during a mid-project mope about how nothing feels innovative, somebody tousled my hair and rattled off a bit of taxonomy.)

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Speaking of taxonomy, I’ve seen a couple of people link to this really excellent post about gender drop-down menus, why a lot of them suck, and how to make better ones. It includes useful links explaining why this is important and useful.

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2010-02-11 02:04 pm

PSA: Feb 14

Valentine's Day? Yeah, no.

There are, of course, a bajillion really wonderful, thoughtful articles and posts going around about good learning experiences and awesome plural relationships and sex positivity and what have you. About half of them make me wish my circumstances were different. They are not. That is (mostly) okay. And I am (mostly) okay with that.

Just please, refrain from trying to involve me directly. Just...no. Seriously. Just don't.

By all means, enjoy the day if you're in a position to enjoy it this year. Discuss it within earshot. I can and will even be happy for you! Just please respect that my threshold is staggeringly low this year, and that even well-intentioned reaching-out aimed at making me feel 'less left-out' is the exact opposite of what I need.
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2010-02-11 05:45 pm

Night of the (totes not gay!) Living Dead, part deux

So it looks like Library of the Living Dead, the publisher that yanked the queer zombie antho, have posted a statement about why they pulled it. According to Dr. Pus, their Editor/Compiler:

I was the one who gave the go ahead for the Anthology. But with all the things that are going on in my life right now I didn’t think it all the way through. I became afraid I would upset people by publishing the book. That’s the reason in a nutshell.

and

I’m a huge supporter of the GLBT community. They are my brothers and sisters.

That’s right. The EiC of a horror micropress caved to imaginary bigots over hypothetical outrage.

Memo to Dr. Pus: Being an ally can be quite scary, but until you stop being too terrified to go to bat for LGBTQ people against your own shadow, you don’t get to call me your brother.

ETA: they’ve locked the post now, but I did post a reply to Dr. Pus about his choice to pull the antho:

Dr. Pus,

I don’t know you personally, and I wasn’t aware of Library of the Living Dead press until somebody (another queer writer) passed me a link to the original call for submissions for this antho. I’m a fledgling pro, I dig zombies, and I’m queer, so it was a perfect match. Every single person I knew I mentioned it to thought the idea of a collection of LGBTQ zombie stories was completely brilliant.

When Grinder announced the plug had been pulled, apparently because you guys had gotten flack from other authors who’d contributed to other books, I was appalled but not surprised. I didn’t think it was the right choice, but I could at least see how someone in your place might make that choice.

Caving to imaginary outrage, though? I don’t understand. You’re valuing the voices of a group of people who would be despicable even if they had appeared over a group of people you claim as your “brothers and sisters.”

If you were my real brother, we’d be having words right now.

My would-be submission is in my drafts folder. It’s about half finished — I had another project to finish before I could really focus on it — so I never sent it in. If I had, though, I’d turn down your money so for two reasons:

One, I don’t like to be paid for something I haven’t earned, and two, so that you could take that money and use it to help build your press so that when you’ve got another chance to be a genuine ally, you can take it.

To paraphrase something a friend said to someone earlier this week, I don’t get to stop being queer just because it’s hard or scary. If you want to be a real ally — our brother — neither do you.

Good luck.

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